Sandra Bullock has filed to divorce her husband of five years, the brooding motorcycle mechanic Jesse James. I try to support marriages whenever I can, even after mistakes have been made. Sadly, it appears Jesse has been dishonest in his marriage for a very long period of time, and I think it unlikely he can change easily. I hope he will, for his behavior is personally destructive and will result in him being very disappointed with what comes of it. But for her sake I believe the right choice is to take the action she has.
I very much wish Sandra Bullock all the best.